I have a Saturday blog for you today because it’s what’s on my mind and I know it is infesting the population.
I have come across this problem endlessly and I just ignore it and move on however, this week alone, this issue has reared it’s ugly head more times than I can count. Today I came across a picture or meme or whatever you want to call it and it was put out by Gary Vaynerchuk that summed up the problem completely. To me, it is another version of my power of 10 that I will try to instill in people as well as to use it as my own mantra. Gary’s version has some risqué language so I’m going to use my own version but still give him the credit for the simplicity he turned it into. Ten markings on a picture as I see it. Ten things for you to write down. Ten things for you to say to yourself. Or, ten things you will die by because if and when you screw up, instead of blaming the person staring back at you in the mirror, you choose to blame every Tom, Dick and Harry that you can. What are these markings, words, mantras or whatever you want to brandish them by? Here is what you need to know, feel and live by: If you’re 100% in charge of your life stop bitching.
That’s right. Are you an adult? If you can answer yes than I have some exciting news for you. YOU are 100% in charge of YOUR life. If you are a grown ass adult who has the ability to sit and complain about everything that has gone wrong in your life from the time you took your first breath than, you and only you are responsible for changing your life into something that you want it to be. Stop saying that the person driving a Mercedes was born with a silver spoon in their mouth. If you want the Mercedes, get a job, save money and buy one. Stop saying that the girl at work was born with genes that keeps her slim. If you want to be slim, get off your ass, get to a gym and eat healthy. If you’re friends have siblings and you grew up alone, go out and meet more people to hang out with. Form close relationships. You don’t have to be blood to be family. Yes, these are real issues I heard just this week alone.
I totally understand and get that many things are easier said than done HOWEVER, just because you can’t or won’t accomplish something doesn’t mean you have to bitch about it.
I am going to end on this note. It is a known fact that if you bring misery into your brain and you consistently speak miserably, you train yourself to become a miserable person. I am by no means telling you to skip around singing. I am telling you that bitching is just a sassy way of showing your jealousy and your envy and even your own personal low self esteem and or low self worth. Learn to be grateful for who you are and for what you have and just move on with your own life.
Do you need a little help and or motivation? Go to your library and read The Greatest You. Everyone needs a helping hand, even with life, so read this book. If your library does not have it then ask a friend if you could borrow it. If neither option works for you then get yourself a copy from Amazon. Here is a link to the book>> https://amzn.to/32Z9Rvv
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